Park of Love is
our sacred essence, a place held by Love, where everything that stands before our pure essence is brought to light, activating various feelings that have been in the shadows. It is like a kind of energy amplifier that leaves no one untouched. The touch is individual and always the best possible for the experiencer, leading them home, to Love.
Welcome to Park of Love
Acceptance of the past point
Acceptance of the past point
Plants and trees require roots to grow and thrive, and so do humans. These roots give us a sense of security and inner peace, but we must embrace them and accept the past as it was. By seeking to understand the decisions of previous generations of our family without judgement, we can reconnect with our roots and live a more peaceful life. As we do this, we notice that the need for blame decreases and our inner peace grows. Everything we've gone through has been necessary; pain is often the result of ignorance and judgement. This point acts as a portal to reactivate the past, allowing us to reconcile with it.
New feminine energy point
New feminine energy point
This point helps to activate the pure feminine energy that resides within each person. This energy is trusting, flowing and free from shame about who we are. Because pure feminine energy has been suppressed for so long, allowing it to surface is essential. Trying to fix or direct our feelings or visions won’t really help, as pure feminine energy doesn’t need that. Instead, this energy within us is simply waiting for permission to be exactly as it is, regardless of the situations that may bring up those feelings. Accepting what is, despite the fear and desire to escape it, brings about a sense of peace and love. The tree that represents this energy has two branches, with limbs reaching towards each other, symbolising a desire to become whole again. The stream of water flowing between the branches represents the tears of the suppressed woman.
‘I am’ point
‘I am’ point
This point reconnects us with our true essence and understanding of ourselves and our purpose, which we frequently overlook out of fear, believing it to be unrealistic. As feelings and visions related to our fears arise, it is tempting to suppress them in order to avoid the pain they cause. However, when we allow those feelings to exist and stop avoiding them, the truth begins to emerge.
New masculine energy point
New masculine energy point
This represents the third eye, a steady and constant energy that exists regardless of what is going on around us. Developing the third eye enables us to embrace our feelings (feminine energy) without panicking or fleeing from them. When we learn to observe and accept our emotions, love comes naturally. The masculine energy accepts the feminine exactly as she is, giving her a safe space to move freely. This point has been overlooked for far too long and is ready to be rediscovered.
Old masculine energy point
Old masculine energy point
A man who experiences emotions and wishes to escape them may feel compelled to take action because he believes that being in touch with his feelings is a sign of weakness and shame. Weak men are frequently pushed aside, creating a culture in which expressing emotions is frowned upon. This creates a situation in which men disconnect from their emotions, and when they try to “fix” things in the world based solely on impulse, they frequently end up exhausted and burnt out because there are always more problems to solve. In this state, a man may hesitate to allow feminine energy into his life, instead trying to compensate with material things, such as cars, houses, success and money, which do not provide true happiness. This point stimulates that energy, encouraging us to consider whether this approach is truly making us happy.
Water
Water
The energy of water is always new, always on the move if unhindered,
teaching us trust.
Fire
Fire
The energy of fire can be dangerous and frightening, but it can also help you if
you befriend it.
Map of the Park
Natural sacred sites in the Park of Love
We invite you to connect with the healing power of nature. The grounds contain a variety of natural energy points that can resonate with different aspects of you, assisting you in your personal growth. Each day brings a new experience, so the connection you feel will always be unique, allowing for new insights and energy to guide your journey.
Free of charge
The Love point
The point where all other points converge. It embodies the essence of feeling. The feeling of love.
The Love point
We invite you to connect with the healing power of nature. The grounds contain a variety of natural energy points that can resonate with different aspects of you, assisting you in your personal growth. Each day brings a new experience, so the connection you feel will always be unique, allowing for new insights and energy to guide your journey.
Free of charge
The point of the feeling of Love is the point where all other points converge. It is a feeling—the feeling of Love.
The stream, as a symbol of femininity—flowing, vibrant, and gentle—conveys the essence of womanhood that moves without obstacles and adapts, finding its own path.
9 symbolizes the space that water needs to flow through. The energy that remains still, regardless of how wildly and unexpectedly the water moves within it. It is like the highest understanding and unconditional allowance of everything that is.
The energies and portals of Park of Love are maintained and balanced by Mait Lillemäe.
Park of Love is open every day from 06:00 to 23:00. The balance contribution for visiting the park is 5 EUR, which can be left in the box attached to the well or transferred to Mait Lillemäe's account: EE817700771000093184.
It is also possible to book a visit to Park of Love with an introduction to its energies and portals. The introduction is conducted by Mait Lillemäe. The guided visit lasts 1 hour, with a balance contribution of 50 EUR.
To book a visit, please contact info@oja9.ee.
Artificial touch
In addition to the natural energy points, Park of Love also has power spots created by human hands, ready to support the journey towards Love.
The smoke sauna
The smoke sauna played an important role in the life of our ancestors. There they treated the sick and gave birth and promoted their health. It was a place with
traditions passed down from mouth to mouth – a sacred place. Võrumaa’s smoke
sauna tradition is also included in the representative list of UNESCO’s spiritual
heritage.
The love park smokehouse was built in 1934. During the renovation works in 2024, the sauna received a new roof, foundation and lower rows of logs. The heater and the sewage also got a new lease of life, which instead of originally flowing into the soil, is now led into the waste water tank.
Sauna heating lasts about 5 hours, depending on the weather, and the temperature is between 60 and 70 degrees. The heat in the sauna is moist and aromatic, suitable for a smoke sauna. The sauna can accommodate 3-4 people at the same time.
There is no live fire or smoke in a ready-made sauna. The heat is provided by about 2 tons of earth stones, which are heated during the heating process.
The water comes from its own well. Hot water can be obtained from the boiler, and cold water can be obtained either from the tap or from the cold water barrel.
There are zinc sheet bowls in the sauna for washing and a bamboo brush for whistling.
In between taking a steam bath, you can take care of yourself under the energy pillars in the Park of Love and in this way, in addition to cleaning your physical body, you can also touch the subtler levels.
Next to the sauna, there is also a hot tub filled with cold water where you can cool off if necessary.
The sauna will be ready at 15:00. Other times can be arranged separately if necessary. The sauna is at its best for about 2 hours.
Introduction video and photos of the sauna
Sauna ritual under the guidance of a sauna woman
The sauna ritual is a smoke sauna experience guided by a sauna woman, where the main purpose of entering the sauna is to relax and reconnect with oneself. The smoke sauna offers cleansing not only for the body but also for the mind, spirit, and soul, with effects that last longer than those of a regular sauna session.
During the ritual, the sauna woman uses not only words and sounds but also the aid of various medicinal herbs, and sometimes ash, salt, or other natural salves—always choosing what each guest needs most.
The 90-year-old renovated sauna at the Park of Love accommodates up to 4 guests, providing a safe and cozy space that invites one to embark on a deep inner journey, if desired. The sauna ritual lasts about 3-4 hours, during which we go through several rounds inside and outside the sauna together. If desired, we can create a sauna environment tailored specifically for you or with a particular intention in mind. Every sauna ritual is unique.
Saunawoman Maia
You will be directed to a page where you can select a suitable date
The sauna has always been important to me, but the realization of just how significant it truly is came only recently. While learning sauna wisdom under the guidance of Helen Moppel, I experienced the full potential of the sauna space and fell in love with the smoke sauna. It’s a place where I feel the most authentic version of myself. In creating sauna rituals, I can combine my love for the sauna and medicinal plants, offering others a space to pause and take a moment to connect more deeply with their inner wisdom.
Dark rooms: Fire and water
7-day dark room retreat for one
An effective way to connect with your deeper essence is to immerse yourself in darkness and silence. This way, you can look into the mirror of your inner feelings and begin to explore the part of yourself that truly drives you in life – your emotions. As other emotions fade, love may begin to emerge.
The dark rooms ‘Fire’ and ‘Water’ are inspired by the energies of the masculine and feminine, embodying their contrasts. These spaces are adjacent to each other to allow for energetic exchanges between men and women. Couples can spend a few days together, resting and observing. In the silence and darkness, anything can happen… and relationships can transform.
The dark rooms were built using the knowledge and skills passed down from our ancestors, combined with modern technology. They’re nestled between the massive clay walls of a barn from the early 20th century, with modern heating and ventilation providing a comfortable space for self-reflection. The rooms have underfloor heating and a ventilation system that recycles heat and humidity. Take a look at the introductory video for a better idea of what to expect in the rooms and how to make the most of your time there.
The dark room retreat usually lasts 7 days, but it is also possible to stay for a longer or shorter period.
342 EUR
Introduction to the Dark Room:
How to survive in the dark room:
Dark Room for advanced practitioners:
Dark Room Retreat – 7 Days for a Couple (in Separate Rooms)
Have you ever wondered why the spark and excitement fade from our relationships? What is this feeling I have towards my partner – is it desire or something else? When we honestly “look” at ourselves, we may begin to notice our true emotions. And through that awareness, we gain the ability to shift those feelings and dive deeper into the hidden layers of our relationship.
During the retreat, partners stay in separate rooms, with the option to visit each other if they wish.
You can learn more about what this dark room couples therapy entails and how it works by watching the video.
The dark room retreat usually lasts 7 days, but it is also possible to stay for a longer or shorter period.
540 EUR
Couples Therapy in the Dark Room:
Meditation cave
You can get closer to your deep essence in the meditation cave. The cave is simple and offers a separation from the outside world. Inside, there is a pallet-based base where you can make yourself a comfortable spot, along with a heating area where you can make a fire. Water can be taken from the well in the yard.
Introductory video and photos of the meditation cave
18 EUR
Barn loft
You can sleep in the barn loft just like our ancestors used to. Nestled among the hay of this early 20th-century barn loft, you can make a cosy nest that suits your needs and provides warmth and comfort.
Introduction
18 EUR / night
Consultation
Sometimes, obstacles appear in our lives that we either don’t see or choose not to see for some reason. If you feel that you have reached such a point—a barrier on your path of growth—I can support you. I can help you recognize the root of the problem in your life and guide you toward overcoming this obstacle.
I can welcome you in person at Park of Love. If you prefer, we can also meet via phone or video call.
The price for a one-hour consultation is 50 EUR.
In addition to holding space at the Park of Love, I have created an information base that supports spiritual growth through various reflections and Masterclasses. You can explore them on the website www.vabanemine.eu.
Feedback
Bella Skalkina
I admire Mait for his depth and dedication. Having known him for a long time, I’ve seen how he dares to make big changes in life, trusting his intuition. When he decides on something, it’s never superficial—he dives fully into the subject, experiencing, questioning, and exploring it in depth. He’s not afraid of uncomfortable situations or difficult questions; instead, he faces them boldly. It is precisely this curiosity and courage that has led him on deep inner journeys, helping him to better understand himself and to free himself from thought patterns that often limit us in hidden ways.
Kristiina Kõrv
I have a strong feeling that you’ve truly found your own path and the ways that, when followed, allow you to continually create yourself and inspire others to move from the outside in—to discover and experience something truly valuable: the purity of simply being. Your strength lies in your pure essence and the values by which you live. Sometimes I find myself reading or listening to your creations and reflecting on how deeply they resonate with my own world—or how beautifully and insightfully you’ve expressed something in words. I am grateful to have you in my world and wish that we all find that truly personal path, where the body has the ability to heal itself, where the soul is intertwined with the heart, joy arises from within, and the spirit is inspired by everything we undertake on our journey!
Jaanika Jeskina
Mait is dedicated. If someone is capable of ruthlessly and honestly unraveling themselves piece by piece—and also knowing how to put themselves back together—then they understand themselves, the human soul, and the functioning of the body incredibly well. He knows how to bring order in the energetic realm to situations that might seem unsolvable in physical reality. I have trusted him blindly on my journey, and he caught me. Literally, in my case. I dared to fall backwards from a height into his arms—and so I can say with confidence that beyond his gift for energetic (spiritual) work, he is also physically strong and resilient. This combination is a great value and a sign of balance in a man. Thank you for doing your work with heart!
Rait Lillemäe
With Mait, there is no such thing as staying in a comfort zone. He looks where most people never dare to look and is in a state of constant and rapid transformation. Often, this pulls along the people around him as well. Mait doesn’t put on a show or wear masks, which serves as a refreshing counterbalance in a society so focused on appearances.
Liisi Lillemäe
I admire Mait’s decisiveness. It’s present in everything he undertakes. And it’s always followed by determined action—whether it’s building a house, running a business, or exploring his inner world. I see that more and more, these qualities go hand in hand with flexibility and flow—guided by trust in the voice of his heart.
Lisann Luik
Mait shows the way. At first, it may feel strange and unfamiliar—but a year or even just half a year later, you find yourself in that same place. And then you understand. He dives deep. He hands you a mirror and gives you the permission to look into it gently.
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Contacts
Oja 9, Puka, 67217 Otepää municipality, Valga County